Saturday, July 18, 2009
Come to Me
Sunday, June 7, 2009
Nepal
Wednesday, May 20, 2009
A Real Love Story
You are constantly waiting for the call to come in but when it does you are never ready for it. “Daniel,” said the shaky voice of my Dad on the other end “Rhodes has been hurt but he’s ok”.
I often replay that September 2007 afternoon over and over in my mind when I think of my brother. I think of all his friends and comrades aboard the armored truck that didn’t make it when the truck did a nose-dive off a 40 ft bridge in Baghdad after encountering a road-side bomb or mechanical malfunction. Rhodes thought a lot about those boys too.
One friend in particular stood out in his mind. Sgt. Tell Gray. Tell had been home in North Carolina only 5 months prior to the “accident” that took his life. He was home for a very special occasion, the birth of he and his wife, Jessica’s, first child Ava Madison Gray. Tell was able to spend a couple of weeks with his new, gorgeous family but that was the last time he would ever see them on this earth.
After regaining strength in his crushed shoulder Rhodes began doing what any good Lieutenant would do, he began checking up on the families of those KIA. He was especially fond of the, by then, 7 month old Ava Madison, always making time to baby sit her so Jessica could go out with friends. He would even spend his weekends helping to tidy up around Jessica’s new house. It seemed strange for the first few months that Rhodes would want to spend so much time helping Jessica and Ava. But helping soon turned into loving and then we all understood.
Rhodes Roberts and Jessica Gray were united in marriage on Folly Beach, SC, just outside of Charleston, on May 16, 2009, an absolutely beautiful ceremony complete with a moving tribute to Tell.
I’m now back in Delhi, fresh off a 20 hour journey, and can only think that even though I’ve been blessed to see and do so much here in the last three months, the highlight of my trip to India has been a five day jaunt to the sunny beaches of South Carolina.
Sunday, April 19, 2009
Observations
Shopping carts here are much easier to use than those in America. The manufacturer didn’t stop after putting two caster wheels on the front. No sir, they attached two caster wheels to the back as well. It is so much easier to navigate the three 15 feet long aisles at the Morning Store grocery store when you have rear-wheel steering.
Cows love to hang around, and in, the dumpsters. With a huge shortage of grass where else would you go? There’s probably some healthy snacks down in there somewhere.
OSHA has NOT made it to Delhi yet. Check out my man here balancing himself more than 60 feet in the air waiting for the concrete bucket to be lowered to fill the column on this building being constructed next to our school.
Trimming your yard can be a full day’s work when scissors are your tool of choice.
Christmas can happen anytime during the year. If you’ll look closely you will see the words “Samaritan’s Purse” written on the boxes loaded onto this fine blue truck. Inside these larger boxes are all of the small shoeboxes many of you helped assemble at your churches last December for Operation Christmas Child. There are almost 1,000 shoe boxes on this truck getting ready to be delivered to children who may have never received a gift before in their life.
Small children are the cutest ever. Even the ones who have had to shave their heads for health reasons. Meet Neyha (girl on left) and Mukis (boy) dressed in their Easter best, the children of Gorelal, our faithful cook.
Children take prayer time very seriously.
The face of no-education is painful to look at. I caught my friend here peering thru the gate at our Dakshinpuri school center. The school is located inside the slum. I doubt this boy has ever been to school before.
Living in the slum would suck, period. This past week here is what was written about one of the slums we work with.
Dakshinpuri:
Dakshinpuri is a large slum community. The whole slum is a coalition of small, congested houses, narrow dirty lanes, improper drainage filled with garbage and defecation. The slum houses are without any windows and made of mud, brick or thatch. The streets are narrow and mostly just two feet wide. One side of this small path is the open drain which allows only one and half feet for walking. These winding mini streets are sometimes miles long leaving no escape route in case of fire or any other danger. People are supposed to use small toilet blocks constructed by the government on the outskirts of the slum with no proper water facility. The slum home situation is not conducive for positive upbringing. Parents often abuse the use of alcohol and drugs. With very few of them having any education of their own, they are not even able to make enough money to feed their precious children. The children are mostly neglected and do not have any knowledge of good hygiene, proper dressing, regularity and discipline that the children outside the slum are being taught.
And the final observation. Education, nutrition, health, and, most importantly, the Peace that passes all understanding can bring joy to the most destitute of situations. The smiles make it worth it all.
Monday, April 6, 2009
Daddy, are we rich?
All of these things are good, but are they generous? Could it be that generosity is loving others so much that we want to give our best, our first, what we've been so richly blessed with, to help or serve them, even when it means giving up some item of luxury in our own life to do so? Ok, so maybe you are thinking "it would be easy to apply that definition of generosity to my own life if I were rich, if I just had a little more". But what is rich? And when do I know that, after years of labor, I have finally reached ‘richness’ and can finally be a generous person? Is there a magic number of wealth accumulation when I can finally say “I am rich”? Is it $1 million? $500K? $10 million? Or could it be that today I decide “I am rich” because I make more money than 96% of the people in the world if my household income is $38,000 or more, or I have more food in the pantry than I will eat today, or because I can wear a different outfit everyday of the week and still have some outfits left over, or my employer gives me days off of work but still pays me for them, or I have an extra room in my house that no one has to sleep in, or my car, or cars, have their own houses that we call garages, or every week I have money left over from my paycheck so I take my family to a nice dinner and a movie? Today, and everyday from hereon, I am rich. Holy cow this is exciting! I never thought I would be rich, but today... April 6, 2009, I have have been blessed with more than I need, I'm rich! (Thank you Andy Stanley for that last line)
Let me introduce you to the very generous family I met on Thursday and was so fortunate to stay with for two nights. Their names are Antony, Shanti, and Nici. Antony is a teacher at the Good Samaritan School in the village of Issapur. He and his family, like many of the teachers at GSS, moved to Delhi, and surrounding areas, from southern India, passing up many higher paying jobs along the way so they could serve the underprivileged children here. Shanti is a housewife, preparing for baby #2, and Nici is their daughter who attends Kindergarten at GSS. Antony is rich. His teacher's salary is $250 per month. His house has two bedrooms, one of which doubles as the living room, dining room, and closet. The house also has a kitchen, a washroom, and a toilet room. The refrigerator has more food in it, though not much more, than Antony's family will eat today. The washroom is equipped with a faucet so that you can fill up the bucket on the floor when you get ready to take your “shower”, or “bucket shower” as it is more accurately named. The toilet is a hole in the floor, called a squat toilet, which leads to the above-ground sewer lines just outside the house. Antony’s house has a house for the school's “four-wheeler” (the 7 passenger van that picks up many of the kids who attend GSS in Issapur). A rich family indeed.
We hadn’t met Antony before Thursday. He only heard of our coming to stay with him the night before. We’re not sure what he might have had planned for his time with his family from Thursday to Saturday, but one thing was certain; when he heard Marshall and I were coming to visit he and his family were determined to show us love and generosity. They gave Marsall and I each our own bed while the three of them slept on one twin bed and a table with a quilt draped over it. Shortly after we arrived Antony noticed that the sheets and pillowcases on our beds were very old and worn so he quickly got on his motorcycle and drove to the next village to buy us new ones. They served us the very best food they had to offer, even making special trips to the next village during the day to purchase apples and bananas for us, but wouldn’t dare eat any themselves until they knew we had eaten everything we wanted. They apologized for the squat toilet and bucket shower because they thought it might be an inconvenience to us. They heated enough water on the stove to put in the shower bucket so we would have a warm shower, and then they quickly took their cold shower afterwards. They welcomed us with a love and generosity I have rarely seen on this earth.
How fortunate we were to meet this rich family. I can only pray I realize today and every day how rich I am as well. I have a bank account with more money in it than I need today. I threw away some food tonight because I was too full to eat it. I will take a hot shower in the morning after I sleep in my soft bed. Tomorrow I will wear different clothes than I wore today and if I’m lucky I will eat at least 3 meals. So now, Lord, help me to be generous with the riches and wealth You’ve blessed me with, always ready to give, and always willing to share.
“Command those who are rich in this present age not to be haughty, nor to trust in uncertain riches but in the living God, who gives us richly all things to enjoy. Let them do good, that they be rich in good works, ready to give, willing to share, storing up for themselves a good foundation for the time to come, that they may lay hold on eternal life” 1 Timothy 6:17-19
Generosity can change a world. I look at the faces of hundreds of slum children each day and see how generosity is changing theirs. Someone's world is waiting to be changed right where you are today.
Some of our new friends.. Sibi is between us.. That's Antony holding Nici.
Marshall and I in Issapur with our first Cricket team, some future hall of famers.
Me with Nici... Can't believe we got her to stand still long enough to snap this.
Sunday, March 29, 2009
The Path to School is Like a Box of Chocolates.. You Never Know What You're Going to Get
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Planes, Trains, and Automobiles
Thursday, March 12, 2009
Where Do I Live
Yesterday, Marshall and I met Raj. Raj lives in the next building over in our apartment complex, Sector 8, and he attends Asia-Pacific Tech where he is studying to be an engineer of some type. After talking about all sorts of things, including helping him understand why in the world two young guys would leave "America" for this place, we asked him how much his salary would be once he graduates and finds a job. Whether correct or not, he threw out a number in the $100K per year range. We concluded the conversation and promised to meet him the next morning at 7 to go for a jog. Then we walked back into our flat to find Gorilal doing his daily cleaning of our place.
Gorilal is our house attendant, hired by the school to cook our breakfast, do our laundry, and make sure the flat stays tidy and well stocked. Gorilal has a wife and three children. He knows exactly 10 English words and thinks "Good Morning" is the common greeting no matter what time of day it is. He loves to peer over our shoulders as we type out emails even though he can't understand a word on the screen. He was extremely proud the other day when he arrived back here from the grocery with a jar of diabetic orange marmalade (see Marshall's blog). He and his family live on less than $3 per day.
Gorilal's life is similar to that of hundreds of thousands of other Indians earning just enough at their job to survive; not to mention the hundreds of thousands more who have no job. The slums are full of families eating no more than one meal per day, but then there are thousands upon thousands outside the slum who don't have much more. Ananthi was just telling me today how one of the major problems many of the hospitals here see is a vast number of broken bones caused by a lack of calcium which stems from subpar nutritional food intake.
You see, in America we tend to have pockets for every class. There's a rich neighborhood over there and a middle class neighborhood over there and then there are some poor people way over on the other side of town, and if we don't drive over there and see their house and families, it's almost like the problem doesn't even exist. Poverty can't hide its ugly face here. Raj is about to make a lot of money in a few years, but he won't be able to look out his window without seeing the ragged effects of poverty all around him.
As I write this blog enty I'm laying half horizontal on my lovely, cushioned couch in my 3 bedroom, 8 bed flat, while only 100 yards away children are collecting and making cow dung patties with their hands to sell for fuel so their families can have at least one meal today.
So the question today is: If you were born into poverty would you rather be born into it in a rural setting such as the Ugandan backcountry where you may never see a "rich" person, or would you rather be born into a family living in a one room shanty made with whatever material you can find while your next door neighbor relaxes in his 3 bedroom, 8 bed flat while typing a blog entry?
I would say neither would be grand. So what can I do? I can start by being more aware of those around me no matter where I am in the world. Yes, I'll start there.....
He who gives to the poor will never want, But he who shuts his eyes will have many curses
Proverbs 28:27
Lord, hold my eyes open. Show me those in need. Give me strength to help and serve.
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Pictures
Saturday, March 7, 2009
Namaste!
We (Marshall and I) arrived in New Delhi on Tuesday and we definitely hit the ground running. The week has been full with getting to know everyone and hopefullly letting them get to know us. Our flat is pretty cool. It has 3 bedrooms with a total of 8 beds. We're only a quarter mile from the Good Samaritan School, where we'll be serving for the next few months as teachers and admin assistants.
We've already had the privelege of seeing where most of our children live, a relocation slum colony inside Delhi called Madanpur Khadar. When we arrived at MK we parked by a trash pile where two cows were chewing on some garbage. The flies were so thick they seemed to cast a shadow on the filth below. We stepped out of the car and were immediately greeted by a handful of the thousands of residents that make up the populus of the few acre tract of land. Some people wanted to touch us, others just wanted to stare. We smiled as best we could, and tried not to swat at the fly swarm around our heads.
We immediately went to a house of a GSS (Good Samaritan School) child and held a Bible Study on the roof with 20 or 30 other followers. After making a few other home visits, to stop and pray for ailing children, we concluded our first of many trips to MK.
The rest of the week was filled with planning our time for the next few months. Marshall and I will be teaching a variety of subjects: Accounting, Music, Economics, Geography, etc...
The only mishap of week 1 came when our other American comrade, Will, fell while we were touring the nearby ruins of an ancient fort. The fall, quite a few feet, broke both of Will's feet (left heel and right fibula above the ankle while also dislocating both ankles). We have stayed with him in the hospital and arranged for his speedy return to the States where surgery awaits. We absolutely hate to see him leave as we were just getting to know him better, but know he needs to get back so he can heal and return to Delhi soon. While here he was working on a community ownership program with the Dakshinpuri slum, so I know he'll want to get back to this worthy project as soon as possible.
I am comforted this morning as I read from Psalms 37. Vv 23 and 24 "The steps of the godly are directed by the Lord. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will not fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand." I know I will stumble, but I know the One who will catch me. I do not know what tomorrow will bring but I know the One who will bring tomorrow.
Blessings,
Daniel